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Toni Carlotti (née Tanucci), 58, of Wharton, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on October 19, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.
Born in Glen Ridge and raised in Cedar Grove, Toni was a devoted wife, mother, sister, and friend whose greatest joy in life was being a mom to her three boys. She made deep friendships wherever she went, from volunteering at her sons’ schools to working at Lowenstein Sandler for 38 years.
She poured her heart into everything she did, from cooking and crafts to painting and scrapbooking, always creating beauty and love in the world around her. Her home was filled with warmth, laughter, and the love she shared with her family and her beloved dogs. She loved reading, learning new recipes, all kinds of trivia, the New York Giants, and all her favorite music. She loved family trips to Lake George and the Adirondacks; a reflection of her own beauty and tranquility.
Toni is survived by her husband, Michael; her sons, Vincent, Dean, and Nicholas; and her brother, Michael. Toni will be remembered for her kindness, creativity, and the unwavering love she gave to those lucky enough to know her.
Visitation will be held 4-6:30pm on Friday October 24, at the Bermingham Funeral Home, 216 S. Main St., Wharton. A Funeral Service will be held at 6:30pm. Interment will be private.
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